Tag, You’re It
It’s all in the #
By Susan Kelly
In a world where everyone’s perpetually looking for a shortcut, few things fill the efficiency bill like Twitter. If you can’t say it in 140 characters — now doubled — it ain’t worth saying. But Twitter spawned an even faster, shorter means of communicating, via hashtag. Hashtags are a great way of being part of a group, or movement, or sentiment. Consider political, social, activist hashtags such as #metoo. Or #blacklivesmatter. Then there are the perennials #inmynextlife or #beach. My own hashtags tend toward weird/trivial/minutiae, like #sittingarounduseless (my armoire) or #cheetosandwine (my pre-bedtime snack).
But my favorite hashtag has been coined by millennials: #adulting. This gerund, which appears in no dictionary, is applied, apparently, whenever a 20-something accomplishes some task, errand or goal that falls under growing up, and — gasp — taking on a duty that was heretofore done for you, and probably by your parents. Actual samples from Twitter:
Googled how to boil a potato the other day. #adulting is going well.
I feel super accomplished because I can fold a fitted sheet. #adulting
Now a member of a dry-cleaning loyalty club. #adulting
In bed before nine and I’m not even mad about it. #adulting
Why does chicken take so long to defrost? #adulting
Looking through the Williams Sonoma catalog. #adulting
Genuinely proud of myself for replacing my wiper blade myself. #adulting
Getting psyched when you find a great parking spot at the grocery store. #adulting
It’s occurred to me that an entire segment of the populace is omitted and ignored from these posts. So I’ve decided it’s time for a hashtag for us, the baby boomers, and here it is: #olding. I invite you to get on Twitter and get this thing going. I’ll start.
What’s the age that you start giving up belts? #olding
Discovering at a dinner party that you’re all sitting around talking about what kind of dental floss is best. #olding
We actually get up every morning and ask each other how we slept. And then answer each other. #olding
Wearing shuffle shoes around the house — slippers, crocs — and forgetting to take them off when you run errands. #olding
All body cavities and indentations get bigger, deeper, wider: eye sockets, armpits. #olding
How can I be #olding when my forehead still leaves grease spots against windows? Oh wait — the extra-duty moisturizer.
No more finding Lite-Brite pegs or Easter candy wrappings in the dryer lint trap. #olding
The age where you aren’t deciding which party to go to, you’re deciding which funeral to make time for. #olding
Putting on pajamas at 5 p.m. #olding
How can I be #olding when I still get chill bumps listening to the Willy Wonka soundtrack?
Still saying “blue jeans” instead of just “jeans” is a sure sign of #olding
A toothbrush in your pocketbook in case there are poppy seeds in the cocktail fare, which will wind up in your receding gums. #olding
Discussing the fastest route to somewhere while in the car. #olding
“Olding” is just so infinitely kinder and gentler than certain adjectives — or medicines advertised during Lester Holt — that imply concepts unacceptable to baby boomers. But I’m here to tell you. If you don’t know what Twitter or a hashtag is, you’re it: #justplainold. OH
Susan Kelly is a blithe spirit, author of several novels, and proud new grandmother.